Robot Monk Xian'er Podcast
1) Interpersonal-Debt5 人际关系之人情债5
我们应该如何看待人情世故？How should we view human feelings? 不离人情，关键看自己的发心。Not departing from human feelings, the keypoint rests in our aspiration.应该怎样发心？How should I arouse my aspiration? ...Show More
2) Interpersonal-Debt3 人际关系之人情债3
应该怎么办？What should I do?不要当做还债，要当做结善缘。Don't treat it as paying a debt,but view itas making good connections.那别人帮了你，也应该有所回馈吧。If you got help from someone else, youshould also give something back. ...Show More
3) Interpersonal-Debt2 人际关系之人情债2
对，就是不愿欠人情。Yes. I just don't want to owe interpersonaldebt.“欠人情”的心态，感恩心少而不安更多，因为担心自己将来还人情的麻烦，无形中把人与人之间的关心帮助当做了交换，这是一种自我包裹的表现，是内心虚弱、自卑、怕受伤害的表现。The mentality of "owing interpersonaldebt" implies less gra...Show More
4) Interpersonal-Debt1 人际关系之人情债1
提问（金心）Question ( By Jin Xin)回 答（贤勇）Answer ( By Xian Yong) 我特别害怕求人，如果谁帮了我就总想着怎么赶紧把这份情还回去，心里沉甸甸的。您帮我分析分析这是怎么回事。I am particularly afraid to ask for help. If anyone helps me, I always think about how...Show More
5) What do you do when you meet abeggar4 遇到乞丐怎么办4
有很多假冒的乞讨者利用我们的同情心骗取钱财，收入比我们还高。我们该如何面对那些乞讨者？Many fake beggars take advantage of ourcompassion to defraud, making even more money than we do. How should we dealwith such beggars?  ...Show More
6) Interpersonal-debt 4 亏欠心与感恩心该如何区分？
亏欠心与感恩心该如何区分？ How to distinguish between a heart of thanksgiving and a feeling of debt? 亏欠的感觉，内心是封闭的，会感到欠了别人的人情、恩情而沉重不安，感恩心则是一种开放、坦然、真心实意的欢喜。虽都是受了他人的帮助，但前者是烦恼，后者是善法，源于自己内心不同方向的思维习惯。A feeli...Show More
7) What do you do when you meet a beggar3 路遇乞丐怎么做3
对骗子短暂的慈悲可能会助长他们不劳而获的习气，如果拒绝施舍可以促使他们改变，从而走上正道不是更好么？Temporary compassion for deceivers may reinforce their habit of getting something for nothing. Wouldn’t it be better if refusal to give could prompt t...Show More
8) What do you do when you meet a beggar2 路遇乞丐怎么做2
分不清真假乞丐时，我担心被骗，不愿意给骗子送钱，但就这么走过，心里同情又愧疚。该怎样办呢？ When I couldn't tell a real beggar from a fake one, I was afraid of being cheated and was reluctant to give money to a swindler, just walking by with...Show More
9) What do you do when you meet a beggar1 路遇乞丐怎么做1
老师好，在大街上总是遇到乞丐，无法判断是真是假，不知该不该布施，请您指导。Venerable Master, I come across beggars inthe streets very often, but can’t tell if theyare fake or not. I wonder if I should give them alms. Would you please give...Show More
10) How to deal with hot temper 5 脾气火爆爱生气怎么办5
怎么去努力呢？ How do you do that? 在平常的生活中，要多练习去看一个人的优点和付出，增长自己的感激之心。也就是多培养感恩心、惭愧心、慈悲心。这几种心的特质跟嗔心恰好相反，就像水与火一样，培养这几种心，就好比把内心的易燃物换成柔软清凉的净水，火就烧不起来了。In ordinary life, practice looking for a person’s merits ...Show More