40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. Podcast
1) The Truth About Bulimia, Divorce, and the Secrets Gay Men Keep – Kyle Ridley
Many gay men over 40 struggle with eating disorders, addiction, and shame while appearing successful and in control. Bulimia, compulsive behaviors, and secrecy often go unnoticed until a breaking poin...Show More
2) Heated Rivalry: The Love War You Keep Fighting With Yourself – Rick Clemons
Negotiating love feels responsible until you realize it is costing you your self-respect. For many gay men over 40, relationships quietly turn into endurance tests disguised as commitment. You to...Show More
3) Can You Still Get Hard After 40? Shay Doran on Performance Anxiety for Gay Men
Many gay men over 40 quietly panic when sex stops working the way it used to. Erections feel unpredictable. Anxiety creeps in. Porn, media, and aging myths make it worse. Men’s coach Shay Doran bri...Show More
4) Gay or Straight, Same Relationship Struggles: Attachment, Boundaries, and Starting Over with Ralph Brewer
In this powerful midlife conversation, Ralph Brewer, author of Rebuild: The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man, unpacks the universal relationship challenges men face, gay or straight. From...Show More
5) The Art of Male Boudoir: Confidence, Intimacy & Body Liberation with Photographer Trey Fox
In this bold and eye-opening episode, I sit down with male boudoir photographer Trey Fox to explore how intimate portraiture helps men reclaim confidence, reconnect with their bodies, and see themselv...Show More
6) Glowing Up Gay: A Late-Life Coming Out, Authenticity Story with Peter Leahy
In this episode, author Peter Leahy shares his powerful late-life coming out story towards true authenticity. In this episode we explore what it means to shed old personas, embrace your identity at an...Show More
7) From Rock Bottom to Reinvention: Late-Life Gay Awakening & Recovery with David Osterman
In this powerful episode, David Osterman shares his journey from late-life self-discovery to addiction recovery that is nothing short of extraordinary. David opens up about coming out in his 40s, surv...Show More
8) Lonely, Sober, and Still Searching: How Gay Men Build Real Connection Without Losing Themselves – Christopher Tompkins
Loneliness is one of the most unspoken struggles among gay men, especially as we age, get sober, or outgrow old social circles. In this powerful conversation, licensed therapist Chris Tompkins unpacks...Show More
9) Black Queer Dance, Masculinity & The Politics of Passing – Dr. Mark Broomfield
In this intriguing episode, Dr. Mark Broomfield, author of Black Queer Dance, Gay Men and the Politics of Passing for Straight, explores the complex intersections of race, queerness, masculinity, and...Show More
Black Queer Dance, Masculinity & The Politics of Passing – Dr. Mark Broomfield
48:07 | Dec 26th, 2025
10) Why Queer History Matters: Preserving Pride, Power, and Our Stories – Adrian Cardwell
In this powerful episode, LGBTQ+ historian and collector Adrian Cardwell shares how his project, Badge of Pride, is preserving 30 years of queer history to ensure our stories are never forgotten. ...Show More