Porn, Betrayal, Sex and the Experts — PBSE Podcast
1) Can I or We ever Heal from his Trickled Truths, Multiple D-Days and Ongoing Lies?!
Many betrayed partners face the heartbreaking experience of trickle truth—when pieces of the truth about sexual betrayal emerge slowly over time instead of all at once. In this episode (324), we respo...Show More
2) Can Someone Who Lived a Secret Sexual Life for 40 Years Ever be Truly Sober?
In this episode (323), we address a heartbreaking submission from a betrayed partner who discovered that her husband of over forty years had been living a secret sexual life throughout their entire ma...Show More
3) Relationship Healing Lives or Dies on "Consistent Transparency!"
(PBSE Episode 322) In relationships impacted by pornography or sex addiction, the greatest damage often comes not only from the betrayal itself but from the pattern of secrecy and withheld truth that ...Show More
4) Guardrails or Walls? Moving from Sexual Aversion to Healthy Intimacy in Recovery
Episode 321 addresses a vulnerable question from a man in recovery who fears he may have “overcorrected”—moving from sexual addiction to sexual numbness. After establishing over a year of sobriety, he...Show More
5) He has the Right to Completely Screw Up His Life!
In episode 320, we address a betrayed partner’s heartbreaking story of separation turning into divorce as her husband’s addiction spirals further out of control. What was supposed to be a wake-up call...Show More
6) When Betrayal is Confessed, What are Healthy Boundaries for the Partner & Addict?
When betrayal is confessed, both partners are immediately forced into territory they never chose. In this episode (#319), we address a powerful submission from a man whose pornography use and delayed ...Show More
7) Can "Just Looking" Destroy a Marriage: Understanding Visual Sexual Addiction
In this episode (#318), we respond to a deeply painful and thought-provoking submission from a partner married for fifteen years who discovered her husband’s long-standing pattern of visual sexual beh...Show More
8) From Shock to Self–Trust: Reclaiming Your Inner Truth After Betrayal
In this episode (#317), we address one of the most destabilizing experiences betrayed partners face: the collapse of reality after discovering a partner’s hidden addiction. When betrayal comes from so...Show More
9) What Does "Proactive Honesty" in Your Daily Life & Relationships Look Like?
In this episode (#316) we focus on the critical role of proactive honesty in healing relationships impacted by addiction, betrayal, and trauma. Proactive honesty goes far beyond “not lying”—it means l...Show More
10) No Bullsh*t—What’s ACTUALLY Blocking An Addict’s TRUE Change?
This episode (#315) challenges the common illusion that visible recovery behaviors—meetings, therapy, sobriety streaks—automatically equal real change. Using a devastating listener submission as the c...Show More