ask a sub Podcast
1) 164. Submission But Not Like THAT
A listener is recovering from a religious culture that expected submission from women by default — how, then, can she trust her desire to be submissive in a consensual D/s dynamic? This week we're tal...Show More
2) 163. Hedonism is a Moral Imperative with S.T. Gibson
On this month's Deep Dive, we're joined by S.T. Gibson, bestselling author of A Dowry of Blood, Savage Blooms, and more, who also hosts the Metaphysical Girl podcast/substack. Her approach to fantasy ...Show More
3) 162. Vanilla Dating Is Not A Pre-Requisite For Kink Dating
Ahhh vanilla dating…. Well, it mainly sucks. Jk! Maybe not! Either way, it's not something you have to do before you get to be kinky. It's good to know what you want and go after it, and treat each ex...Show More
4) 161. How To Be A 24/7 Sub When You're Like… Really Pissed At Your Dom
What happens in a long-term 24/7 dynamic when you, as a sub, get so fuckin pissed that you just need a MINUTE to collect yourself before resuming your tasks?!?! Lina gets into the communication tools ...Show More
5) 160. When You Break Up With A Dom Who Looms Large
A caller wants to know how to feel confident as a sub in your local scene after a friendship breakup with a Dom who seems to be the golden boy of said scene. We talk about how to claim space that's ri...Show More
6) 159. Exploring Our Darker, Stranger Drives with Anastasiia Fedorova
On this month's Deep Dive, we're joined by Anastasiia Fedorova, author of Second Skin: Inside The Worlds of Fetish, Kink, and Deviant Desire. We talked about how capitalism and commodity culture influ...Show More
7) 158. Let's Talk About Latex!
What if you wanted to wear a raincoat but like…. in a weird way?? In anticipation of our upcoming Deep Dive with Anastasiia Fedorova, author of Second Skin: Inside The Worlds of Fetish, Kink, and Devi...Show More
8) 157. Responsible Mess Management
We're all a mess rn. How do we share our messy selves with others messy selves without making too much of a mess?? It's the question of the day and Lina uses her mess to make an attempt at an answer. ...Show More
9) 156. My Dudes! My Guys! My Bros!
What is a Nice Guy™ to do when the sub he's playing with refuses to enumerate her wants/needs? Is it pressure-y to insist on a discussion? And, more broadly, how are nice and good men supposed to oper...Show More
10) 155. Quick Hits: British ≠ English, Grief = Horny
On this month's Quick Hits we're talking about how Lina and Mr. Dune take their tea, and how to put yourself out there at kinky parties, when you're a little tender, and most especially when you're gr...Show More