ask a sub Podcast
1) 155. Quick Hits: British ≠ English, Grief = Horny
On this month's Quick Hits we're talking about how Lina and Mr. Dune take their tea, and how to put yourself out there at kinky parties, when you're a little tender, and most especially when you're gr...Show More
2) 154. How To Tell If Someone Is Kinky (No Telepathy Needed)
A listener wants to know how to tell if someone is kinky without having to ask. You guessed it, you do still have to ask, but there are subtle ways of sussing out the bedroom habits of your hot, compe...Show More
3) 153. Does A 'Pleasure Dom' Imply The Existence Of A… Not-Pleasure Dom?
Some thoughts on the implications of the words we use to signal safety, pontifications on whether 'Pleasure Doms' are inadvertent pick-mes, and another battle cry on how you deserve pleasure, respect,...Show More
4) 152. Pro-Submission with Alexis O'Kneel
Pro-sub Alexis O'Kneel joins us to discuss a little-known facet of the Oldest Profession, and how pro-subs can be a resource to all members of the kink community. Even people who have been slighted by...Show More
5) 151. If You Want The Juice, You Gotta Show 'Em The Whole Fruit
We're inventing idioms on the Ask A Sub podcast once again, and this time we're talking about how to balance a desire for a long-term relationship with sorting out kink compatibility. We also talk abo...Show More
6) 150. Zen and the Art of Not Trauma Dumping
What if our baggage from the vanilla world could be taken away as easily as selling something on Facebook Marketplace? Until that time, Lina provides a rubric and several measuring sticks (??) for eva...Show More
7) 149. Quick Hits: Clubs, Cults, and Sexual Favors
We're back with another Quick Hits episode! This time we're talking about how to get slammed in a hockey-coded way, how to tell if your kinky commune is a cult, and how to negotiate a relationship whe...Show More
8) 148. New Year, Same Heated Rivalry with Danielle Belazel
We're back with a shared full episode (no snippet!) with the Sex Ed with DB podcast, talking all about everyone's favorite smutty gay hockey show, HEATED RIVALRY! Danielle and I discuss the secret sau...Show More
9) 147. Getting Your Bag (Ethically!)
A caller is struggling with accepting money for Domination services, and understandably so! But this week we're talking about how to get the rent paid on the journey to the social utopia of which we a...Show More
10) 146. This Sex Cult Stole Our Sh*t! With Natalie Robehmed of Allison After NXIVM
This month on the Deep Dive series we're joined by journalist Natalie Robehmed, whose exclusive access to Allison Mack after her time in prison culminated in the podcast Allison After NXIVM. We'll ex...Show More
146. This Sex Cult Stole Our Sh*t! With Natalie Robehmed of Allison After NXIVM
22:10 | Dec 13th, 2025