Choosing Us Podcast
1) 120. Keep Pedaling Together: Growth, Identity, and Supporting Each Other's Dreams
When your partner keeps growing and you're standing still, the relationship starts to feel off-balance. Brad and his co-host wrap up their mini-series on Napoleon Hill's relationship principles with a...Show More
2) 119. Managing Chaos and Affection: When Hunger and Hormones Test Your Marriage
The Drapers return from their week away to share something that saved their relationship during a particularly rough afternoon. Three months into parenting three children, they're figuring out how to ...Show More
3) 118. Intentional Effort: Prioritizing Your Relationship Through Self-Care and Daily Choices
Why Your Parents' Relationship Might Be Sabotaging Your MarriageHere's something you probably haven't thought about lately: the patterns you witnessed growing up are quietly running your relationship ...Show More
4) 117. Keep Your Word: The Four Agreements and Staying Committed When It's Hard
When your spouse says "just a minute" and returns thirty minutes later, does that count as a lie or just a miscommunication?The Drapers tackle this exact scenario in their latest conversation about Do...Show More
5) 116. Building Stronger Families Through Shared Struggle: The Masogi Tradition
When the Drapers started planning their first Masogi, a year-defining difficult activity completed during winter's slack season, Brad was shocked to learn he'd be tackling it as a team. What began as ...Show More
6) 115. From Big Dreams to Daily Actions: How Couples Can Achieve Goals Together
When it comes to New Year's resolutions, most people abandon them within days.The Drapers tackle why this happens and what actually works instead (spoiler: it's not just writing a wish list). Breaking...Show More
115. From Big Dreams to Daily Actions: How Couples Can Achieve Goals Together
24:00 | Dec 31st, 2025
7) 114. Choosing Presence Over Presents: Making the Holidays Matter
When a newborn forces you to slow down, something unexpected happens. The Drapers discovered that stripping away the holiday chaos revealed what Christmas was really about all along (and it wasn't the...Show More
8) 113. Choosing Joy Through Chaos: How Intentional Communication Strengthens Your Relationship
Starting the year with chaos and hardship, the Drapers discovered something counterintuitive: real happiness isn't waiting at the end of some perfect journey. Their 2025 has been exceptionally challen...Show More
9) 112. Surviving the Newborn Phase: Reconnecting When Life Gets in the Way
Relationship Maintenance During Life's Demanding SeasonsWhen a new baby arrives, even the strongest relationships face challenges that test established connection routines. The Drapers are experiencin...Show More
10) 111. Slowing Down in the Chaos: Finding What Really Matters
New Parents, Old WisdomWhen their sons reminded them about the Christmas tree, the Drapers realized something profound: their children's priorities matter just as much as their own. With a newborn in ...Show More